How to know your real friends.
How to know your real friends can be tough, but it is one of the best things you can do for yourself.
It’s not worth it when you care so much for people who don’t care for you in return.
I call this waste of care.
The major mistake we all make most times is thinking anybody, or everybody can be our friend; this isn’t true or right. Not everyone you meet in the office, train, cab, school, bar or club should be your friend.
Friendship isn’t just a tag; friendship comes with responsibility. A friend should be there for you when you need them the most; a friend should be able to call you to order when he/she notice you are not doing the right thing. A good friend will not just be with you when you are only rich.
I tell you once again; Friendship comes with responsibility, i.e., been there for each other always.
Knowing your real friends ASAP will do you a lot of good and make you avoid disappointment. It can be disheartening when you find out that the person you have sacrificed a lot for does not even value you, trust me, I know it’s excruciating.
When someone you care a lot for doesn’t value you in return, who will you rest on when you have issues? You will be left alone in times of troubles. Or you later knew the people you call your friends doesn’t wish you well.
You need to know the difference between those that are just with you because of what they gain from you and those that care about you.
Now, the question should be how do we know who are our real friends are?
The best way to know those who love you is when you have your downtime.
Do you have to wait until you started having issues and there’s no one to rest on?
No, you don’t have to wait until you have problems. But you might need to pretend you are broke or something. This is the best way to know people who worth your time.
You might be that rich guy that takes all your friends out always, not because you are rich but because you want everyone around you to be happy. Hey, watch your back, most of those guys are your enemies, and they don’t wish you well. They say bad things about you and hope you fall soon.
But there will always be that friend that cares about you, and your money isn’t his primary reason for being your friend but one of it though lol.
You need to know who that friend is as soon as possible. That is the only person that deserves all your care and time. He will always be there for you. We all need that type of person who truly cares about us and is willing to sacrifice almost all for us, as we do for them.